Life in the Spirit: Romans 8:1-17 Small Group Guide

Opening Discussion:

Share a time when you were falsely accused of something.
- How did it make you feel?
- How do you think it would feel to be fully pardoned for something you were actually guilty of?

Key Takeaways:

- Through Christ, believers are no longer condemned but set free from the law of sin and death.

- We have a choice to set our minds on either the flesh or the Spirit.

- The Holy Spirit is a person of the Trinity, not just a force or power.

- As believers, we are adopted into God's family and can call Him "Abba, Father."

Discussion Questions:

- How does understanding that there is "no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus" impact your daily life?

- What does it mean to you to "set your mind on the Spirit" rather than on the flesh?

- How would you explain the concept of sanctification to someone new to the faith?

- In what ways have you experienced the Holy Spirit's guidance or empowerment in your life?

- How does viewing God as a loving Father, rather than a harsh judge, change your approach to faith?

Practical Applications:

This week, practice being aware of your thought patterns.

- When you notice your mind drifting towards fleshly desires, consciously redirect your thoughts to spiritual matters.

- Set aside time each day to pray, addressing God as "Abba, Father." Reflect on what it means to be adopted into His family.

- Identify one area in your life where you struggle with sin. Ask the Holy Spirit for guidance and strength to overcome this challenge.

- Consider how you can share the message of freedom in Christ with someone who might be feeling condemned or burdened by guilt.

Closing Reflection: Like Kirk Bloodworth, who worked tirelessly to bring justice to others after his exoneration, how can we work to bring spiritual freedom to those still in bondage to sin and death? Take a moment to pray for opportunities to share God's love and the message of freedom in Christ with others this week.

Small Group Guide: Lost and Found - God's Unconditional Love

Opening Prayer: Begin with a prayer, asking God to open hearts and minds to His Word and guide the discussion.

Key Takeaways:
- We all fall into one of two categories: lost or found.

- God's love for us is unconditional, regardless of our actions.

- Repentance and forgiveness are crucial steps in our relationship with God.

- There is great joy in heaven when a sinner repents and is reconciled to God.

- We should avoid having a hard heart or "righteous indignation" towards others.

Discussion Questions:

- The sermon mentions three parables: the lost sheep, the lost coin, and the prodigal son. How do these parables progressively illustrate God's love and desire for the lost to be found?

- Reflect on a time when you felt "lost" in your life. How did God's unconditional love draw you back to Him?

- The sermon states, "God loves you in spite of your dirty, rotten sins." How does this statement challenge or affirm your understanding of God's love?

- Discuss the difference between the father's reaction and the older brother's reaction to the prodigal son's return. Which reaction do you tend to have when you see others return to God?

- How can we, as believers, avoid developing a "hard heart" like the older brother in the parable?

- The pastor shared a story about a family who left the church due to feeling neglected. How can we ensure our church community is reaching out to those who are hurting or feeling disconnected?

- What does true repentance look like in our daily lives? How can we cultivate a heart that is quick to repent?

Practical Applications:

- This week, reflect on areas in your life where you might be "lost" or drifting from God. Take steps to "come home" to the Father.

- Identify someone in your life who might be feeling lost or disconnected from God or the church. Reach out to them with compassion and invite them back.

- Practice extending unconditional love to someone who has wronged you or is difficult to love.

- Write a prayer of gratitude for God's unconditional love and forgiveness in your life.

- Look for opportunities to celebrate and rejoice when someone returns to faith or takes steps towards God.

Closing Prayer: End the session by thanking God for His unconditional love, asking for His help to extend that love to others, and praying for any specific needs mentioned during the discussion.

Small Group Guide: Law, Sin, and Salvation in Christ

Opening Prayer: Begin the session with a prayer, asking for God's guidance and wisdom as you discuss the sermon.

Key Takeaways:

- The Jewish Festival of Weeks (Shavuot) is connected to the Christian celebration of Pentecost.

- The Mosaic Law, while good and holy, ultimately failed to save people from sin.

- Knowledge of the law can actually increase awareness of sin and temptation.

- All people, both Jews and Gentiles, struggle with an inner conflict between knowing what is right and actually doing it.

- Jesus Christ is the ultimate solution to this inner conflict and the only path to true salvation.

Discussion Questions:

- How does understanding the Jewish background of Pentecost enhance your appreciation of this Christian holiday?

- Paul uses the example of coveting to illustrate how the law can make us more aware of sin. Can you think of other examples where knowing a rule might actually increase temptation?

- Reflect on Paul's statement: "I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate." (Romans 7:15) How does this resonate with your own experiences?

- The sermon mentions the "pink elephant" analogy. How does this help explain the relationship between law and sin?

- How does Paul's struggle in this passage make you feel about your own spiritual journey?

- Discuss the difference between following a set of rules and having a relationship with Jesus. How does this impact your approach to faith?

- The sermon warns against man-made rules in churches. Have you experienced or observed any examples of this? How did it affect people's faith?

Practical Applications:

- This week, pay attention to moments when you feel an inner conflict between what you know is right and what you actually do. Reflect on how Christ's grace applies in these situations.

- Choose one area of your life where you tend to rely on rules or self-discipline. Pray about how you can shift your focus to relying on Christ's power instead.

- If you've been judgmental of others based on external behaviors, take time to repent and consider how you can show grace instead.

- Write a short gratitude list, thanking God for freeing you from the "stranglehold of sin" through Jesus Christ.

Closing Prayer: End the session by thanking God for His grace and asking for His help in living out the truths discussed.

Small Group Guide: Liberated and Enslaved (Romans 6:15-23)

Opening Prayer: Begin your session with a prayer, asking for God's guidance and wisdom as you discuss the sermon and its implications for your lives.

Key Takeaways:
- We are all born into slavery to sin due to Original Sin.

- Through Christ's redemption, we have the opportunity to be freed from sin and become "slaves of righteousness."

- Christian freedom is not about doing whatever we want, but about willingly and joyfully obeying God.

- We face a daily choice between serving sin or serving God.

- Living as a disciple of Christ is challenging but rewarding.

Discussion Questions:
- What was your understanding of salvation before hearing this sermon? How has it changed or been reinforced?

- The pastor mentions his struggle with feeling he could never be "good enough." Have you ever felt this way in your faith journey? How does the concept of sanctification address this struggle?

- How do you understand the analogy of being "slaves to righteousness"? What does this mean in practical terms for your daily life?

- The sermon emphasizes that we have a choice between being slaves to sin or slaves to righteousness. Can you share an example of when you've faced this choice recently?

- Discuss the statement: "Living a life as a deeply devoted disciple of Jesus Christ is hard. Living a life a slave of sin is hard." How have you experienced this in your own life?

- What does it mean to you to be "obedient from the heart" to God's teachings?

- How can we support each other in making the daily choice to serve God rather than sin?

Practical Applications:
- Daily Choice: Each morning this week, consciously choose to serve God. Keep a journal of how this impacts your day.

- Scripture Meditation: Spend time meditating on Romans 6:15-23 this week. Write down any insights or questions that arise.

- Accountability Partners: Pair up with someone in the group to check in daily about your choices to serve God or sin.

- Acts of Obedience: Identify one area in your life where you struggle to obey God. Make a plan to address this area through prayer, accountability, and action.

- Gratitude Practice: Each day, write down one way you've experienced freedom in Christ, even in the midst of obedience.

Closing Prayer: End your session by praying for each other, asking for God's strength to choose righteousness daily and to grow in sanctification.

Small Group Guide: Understanding Justification and New Creation in Christ

Based on the sermon on Romans 5:1-21

Opening Prayer: Begin your session with a prayer, asking for God's guidance and wisdom as you discuss the sermon and its implications for your lives.

Key Takeaways:

- Christian justification goes beyond legal acquittal; it transforms us into a new creation.

- Peace (shalom) and hope are two pillars of the Christian faith resulting from justification.

- Our suffering for Christ is evidence of our new creation and faith.

- Paul compares Adam (type) with Jesus Christ (antitype) to illustrate God's plan of salvation.

- God's grace through Christ is far greater than the sin introduced by Adam.

Discussion Questions:

- How does understanding justification as becoming a "new creation" differ from simply being "acquitted" of sin? How might this change our perspective on salvation?

- The sermon mentions that peace (shalom) is more than the absence of conflict. How would you describe this fuller understanding of peace in your own words? How have you experienced this kind of peace in your life?

- Pastor Adam mentions that our suffering for Christ is evidence of our new creation. Have you ever experienced suffering because of your faith? How did it impact your relationship with God?

- Discuss the concept of type and antitype in Scripture. How does seeing Jesus as the "second Adam" enhance your understanding of God's plan of salvation?

- The sermon emphasizes that God's grace is "far greater" than Adam's sin. How does this truth impact your view of God's love and forgiveness? How might it change the way you approach your own struggles with sin?

- Reflect on the statement: "We are all either in the first Adam OR we are in the second Adam." What does this mean for how we view humanity and our need for Christ?

Practical Applications:

- This week, intentionally look for ways to experience and share God's peace (shalom) in your daily life. Keep a journal of these moments and share with the group next time.

- Identify an area where you struggle to have hope. How can you apply the concept of being "joyfully confident in God's glory" to this situation?

- Choose one way you can live out your "new creation" identity this week. It could be forgiving someone, serving others, or resisting a particular temptation.

- Study another example of type and antitype in Scripture (e.g., Passover lamb and Jesus). How does this deepen your appreciation for God's plan throughout history?

- Write a prayer of thanksgiving, focusing on God's abundant grace that overcomes sin in your life.

Closing Prayer: End your session by thanking God for His transformative work in your lives, the peace and hope you have in Christ, and the opportunity to grow together as a group.

Small Group Guide: Keeping Your Head Above Water

Introduction:
This small group guide is based on personal stories shared by Takoda, Clara, and Montana about facing challenges, holding onto faith, and experiencing God's presence in difficult times.

Key Takeaways:
- God's timing and purpose are often beyond our understanding.

- Faith can provide strength and hope in seemingly hopeless situations.

- Everyone has different ways of coping with challenges.

- God's presence can be felt even in the midst of loss and uncertainty.

- Difficult experiences can teach us resilience and how to adapt to change.

Discussion Questions:

- Takoda's story:
   - How has a challenging situation in your life unexpectedly turned around?
   - Have you ever felt God's presence or guidance when speaking to someone who was ill or struggling?

- Clara's experience:
   - How do you typically handle difficult emotions or situations?
   - What Bible verses or spiritual practices help you find comfort during tough times?
   - How has your faith impacted your approach to personal challenges or setbacks?

- Montana's reflection:
   - Can you recall a time when you felt God's presence during a moment of loss or grief?
   - How has a difficult experience in your past helped you become more resilient or adaptable?

- General questions:
   - What does "keeping your head above water" mean to you in your faith journey?
   - How can we support each other as a community when facing personal struggles?

Practical Applications:

- Journaling exercise: Write about a time when you felt God's presence during a difficult situation. Reflect on how this experience impacted your faith.

- Scripture meditation: Choose one of the Bible verses mentioned (Exodus 14:14 or Matthew 6:25) or another verse that brings you comfort. Spend time each day this week meditating on it and considering how it applies to your life.

- Gratitude practice: Each day this week, identify one way you've seen God working in your life or the lives of those around you, even in small ways.

- Community support: Reach out to someone in the group or your wider community who might be struggling. Offer a listening ear, a prayer, or practical help.

- Coping strategies: Share and discuss healthy coping mechanisms for dealing with stress, worry, or difficult emotions. Consider trying a new strategy this week.

Closing Prayer:
Close the session with a prayer, thanking God for His presence in our lives, asking for strength to face challenges, and seeking wisdom to support one another through difficult times.

Small Group Guide: Redeemed into Righteousness (Romans 3:21-31)

Opening Prayer

Key Takeaways:
- Paul uses a rhetorical style called diatribe in Romans to explain theological concepts.

- Both Jews and Gentiles are equal before God - all have sinned and fall short.

- God's righteousness is revealed through faith in Jesus Christ.

- Salvation is a gift from God, not earned by human merit.

- Christ's death purchased redemption for all who were slaves to sin.

Discussion Questions:

- How does understanding Paul's use of diatribe change your perspective on reading Romans?

- The sermon mentions two epochs in salvation history. How would you describe the difference between the "BC" and "AD" eras in terms of God's relationship with humanity?

- Discuss the concept of "God's righteousness through faith in Jesus Christ." How does this differ from the idea that we must have faith to receive righteousness?

- The sermon states, "God's faith and our belief are the two sides of the salvation coin." What does this mean to you personally?

- How does the imagery of slave redemption help you understand Christ's sacrifice?

- What does it mean that God "pays himself the price" for our sins? How does this impact your view of God's love?

- The sermon emphasizes that salvation is available to everyone. How can we as a church better embody this inclusive message?

Practical Applications:

- This week, read Romans 2 and 3, imagining the conversation between "Paul the Pharisee" and "Paul the Apostle." Journal your insights.

- Reflect on areas in your life where you might be tempted to boast about your own righteousness. Practice humility by acknowledging God's gift of salvation.

- Identify someone you may have considered "less worthy" of God's love. Pray for them daily this week, asking God to help you see them as He does.

- Share the concept of God's inclusive love with someone who might feel excluded from faith or church. Invite them to join your small group or a church service.

- Write a thank-you letter to God, expressing your gratitude for His gift of righteousness through Christ.

Closing Prayer

Encourage group members to continue reflecting on these concepts throughout the week and to come prepared to share any insights or experiences at the next meeting.

Here's a small group guide based on the sermon transcription:

Small Group Guide: Of Sin and Wrath (Romans 1:18-32)

Opening Discussion:
- What stood out to you most from the sermon? Why?

- How do you typically react when you hear about God's wrath? Why do you think this topic is often avoided in contemporary Christianity?

Key Takeaways:
- God's wrath is directly tied to His righteousness and cannot be separated from it.

- All people inherently know the truth about God but choose to ignore it.

- Sin is pervasive and affects all aspects of human life, not just sexual morality.

- God allows people to experience the consequences of their sinful choices.
- Approving of sin in others can be even worse than committing sin ourselves.

Discussion Questions:
- How does understanding God's wrath help us better appreciate His righteousness and love?

- The sermon mentions "getting back to fundamentals." What are some spiritual fundamentals we might need to revisit in our own lives?

- Paul lists many sinful behaviors in Romans 1:29-31. Which of these do you see most prevalent in society today? In your own life?

- How can we balance acknowledging our own sinfulness while still striving to live righteously?

- What does it mean to "suppress the truth" about God? How might we be doing this in subtle ways?

- How does the idea that "we reap what we sow" apply to our spiritual lives?

Practical Applications:

- This week, take time to reflect on areas where you might be ignoring God's truth in your life. Pray for the Holy Spirit to reveal these to you.

- Practice humility by acknowledging your own faults before criticizing others.

- Identify one "fundamental" aspect of your faith that you'd like to strengthen (e.g., prayer, Bible study, serving others). Make a plan to focus on it this week.

- Consider how you might be "applauding" sin in subtle ways (through media consumption, conversations, etc.). Take steps to change this behavior.

Closing Prayer:
Close the session by having group members pray for humility, self-awareness, and a renewed commitment to living out God's righteousness in their daily lives.

Here's a small group guide based on the sermon transcription:

Small Group Guide: No Shame in the Gospel
Romans 1:1-17

Opening Prayer:
Begin your session with a prayer, asking God to open your hearts and minds to His Word and to guide your discussion.

Key Takeaways:
- Paul's approach to the Roman church differs from his other letters due to his unfamiliarity with the congregation.

-  The Gospel is for everyone - both Jews and Gentiles.

-  We should not be ashamed of the Gospel, despite how it may appear to non-believers.
- God's righteousness is revealed through faith and brings both justice and redemption.
- Faith, like Abraham's, leads to righteousness before God.

Discussion Questions:

- Paul states he is "not ashamed of the Gospel." Why might some people feel ashamed of their faith? Have you ever felt this way?

- The sermon mentions that salvation has both negative (saved from) and positive (saved into) aspects. How does this change or enhance your understanding of salvation?

- How would you explain "the righteousness of God" to someone unfamiliar with the concept?

- The sermon discusses God's judgment through the Holy Spirit's conviction. How have you experienced this in your own life?

- Paul draws a connection between Abraham's faith and righteousness. How does this impact your view of faith and works?

- What does it mean to you personally to "live by faith" in today's world?

Practical Applications:

- This week, identify one area where you might feel "ashamed" of your faith. Pray for courage and look for an opportunity to boldly share that aspect of your beliefs.

- Reflect on both the negative and positive aspects of your salvation. Write down how being "saved into" God's kingdom has impacted your life.

- Practice explaining "the righteousness of God" to a friend or family member, focusing on both the justice and redemptive aspects.

- Pay attention to moments of conviction from the Holy Spirit this week. When you feel convicted, immediately seek forgiveness and make amends if necessary.

- Like Abraham, consider an area where God is calling you to step out in faith. What's holding you back? How can you trust God more in this situation?

Closing Prayer:
End your session by thanking God for His righteousness, the gift of faith, and the power of the Gospel. Ask for His help in living out the practical applications discussed.

Easter Sunday Small Group Guide: "Resurrection Reality"

Opening Prayer: Begin your time together by asking God to open your hearts and minds to the reality of Christ's resurrection and its implications for your lives.

Key Takeaways:
- The resurrection of Jesus is not just resuscitation, but a pivotal moment in world history that changes everything.

- The women at the tomb were initially afraid because they understood the resurrection meant the Day of Judgment had arrived.

- We are living in a new reality since that first Easter, whether we realize it or not.

- Our faith is birthed from weakness and hope springs from failure, defying worldly expectations.

Discussion Questions:
- How does understanding the difference between resuscitation and resurrection change your perspective on Easter?

- The women at the tomb were initially afraid to speak about what they had seen. Have you ever felt afraid or hesitant to share your faith? Why?

- The sermon mentions that God's grace isn't always predictable. Can you share an experience where God's grace showed up in an unexpected way in your life?

- How does the idea that we are already living in the reality of Christ's resurrection challenge or encourage you in your daily life?

- The sermon describes the church as people who are "learning to love their enemies" and "choosing mercy when retaliation makes more sense." How have you seen this played out in your own life or in the lives of others?

- What does it mean to you personally that our "eternal life has already begun"? How might this change how you approach your daily life?

Practical Applications:
- This week, identify one area in your life where you can choose mercy over retaliation or love over indifference. Share with the group next time how it went.

- Reflect on how the resurrection gives you hope. Write down three ways you can live out this hope in practical ways this week.

- Practice sharing your faith story with someone in the group. How would you explain the significance of Christ's resurrection to someone who doesn't believe?

- Choose one "least of these" in your community to serve or show kindness to this week, remembering that in Christ's kingdom, they are among the most important.

Closing Prayer: Thank God for the reality of the resurrection and ask for His help in living out its implications in your daily lives. Pray for courage to share this good news with others.

Small Group Guide: "It Is Well With My Soul"
Based on Philippians 1:12-26

Opening Prayer: Begin your session with a prayer, asking God to guide your discussion and help apply the lessons from the sermon to your lives.

Key Takeaways:
- True Christian faith goes beyond following rules to deeply knowing and experiencing Christ.

- Paul's imprisonment unexpectedly helped spread the Gospel.

- Our perspective on life's challenges can determine our spiritual growth and impact.

- God can use both positive and negative circumstances to further His kingdom.

Discussion Questions:

- The pastor mentioned his early misunderstanding of Christian faith as following rules. How has your understanding of faith evolved over time?

- Reflect on the lyrics "to know you in your sufferings" from the song "Knowing You." What does this mean to you personally?

- How did Paul's attitude toward his imprisonment surprise you? Can you think of a time when a difficult situation in your life unexpectedly led to something positive?

- The sermon mentions two groups preaching Christ for different motives. How do you think we can maintain pure motives in serving God?

- Discuss the story behind the hymn "It Is Well With My Soul." How does Horatio Spafford's response to tragedy challenge or inspire you?

- Paul encourages living "in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ." What does this look like in your daily life?

Practical Applications:

- This week, try to identify one challenging situation in your life. Pray for God's perspective on it and look for ways He might be working through it.

- Choose a verse from Philippians 1:12-26 to memorize and meditate on throughout the week.

- Write a short reflection on how knowing Christ more deeply has impacted your faith journey.

- Look for an opportunity to encourage someone who is going through a difficult time, sharing Paul's perspective on how God can work through all circumstances.

Closing Prayer: End your session by praying for each other, asking God to help you live out the lessons learned and to deepen your relationship with Christ.

Small Group Guide: "When I Survey Galatians 6:1-18"

Opening Prayer: Begin your session with a prayer, asking for God's guidance and wisdom as you discuss the sermon and its implications for your lives.

Key Takeaways:
- We are called to bear one another's burdens as a Christian community.

- Each individual is ultimately responsible for their own spiritual growth and salvation.

- The cross of Christ is the foundation of our faith and the only thing we can truly boast about.

Discussion Questions:

- The pastor shared an experience of a cross country meet. How does the supportive atmosphere of that event relate to how we should function as a Christian community?

- Paul instructs us to "bear one another's burdens" (Galatians 6:2). What are some practical ways we can do this in our church and small group?

- How do we balance helping others with the idea that "all must carry their own loads" (Galatians 6:5)? Can you think of examples where you've seen this balance in action?

- The sermon mentions that we can't give up our salvation for others, even if we wanted to. How does this impact your understanding of personal responsibility in faith?

- Discuss the metaphor of "sowing and reaping" (Galatians 6:7-8). How have you seen this principle at work in your own spiritual life?

- The pastor emphasized the importance of engaging in opportunities for spiritual growth. What opportunities has our church provided, and how have you participated in them?

- Reflect on the line, "May I never boast of anything except the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ" (Galatians 6:14). What does this mean to you personally?

- How does the concept of "dying to self" relate to living an abundant life in Christ?

Practical Applications:

- This week, identify one person in your life who is carrying a heavy burden. Reach out to them and offer specific support.

- Reflect on areas of your spiritual life where you might be relying too heavily on others. Make a plan to take more personal responsibility in those areas.

- Create a "sowing and reaping" journal. Each day, write down one way you "sowed to the Spirit" and reflect on the potential "harvest" of that action.

- Choose one spiritual discipline (prayer, Bible study, fasting, etc.) to focus on improving over the next month. Share your goal with the group for accountability.

- Write a short reflection on what it means to "boast in the cross." Share it with the group next week if you feel comfortable.

Closing Prayer: End your session by praying for each other, asking God to help you bear one another's burdens while also growing in personal responsibility and faith.

Small Group Guide: "I Need Thee Every Hour"

Opening Prayer:
Begin with a prayer asking God to guide your discussion and help everyone apply the lessons from the sermon to their lives.

Key Takeaways:
- Adulting is challenging and often filled with unexpected responsibilities and stressors.

- People throughout history have faced similar struggles and challenges.

- We need God in every aspect of our lives, both in times of joy and difficulty.

- Faith provides comfort and strength in dealing with life's mundane and difficult moments.

Discussion Questions:

- The sermon mentions, "Adulting is hard." What are some specific challenges you face in your adult life? How do these challenges affect your faith?

- Reflect on the quote: "I can't wait to grow up is the dumbest thing I have ever said." How has your perspective on adulthood changed over time?

- The sermon discusses the impact of social media on our perception of life. How has social media affected your view of your own life or others' lives? How can we maintain a healthy perspective?

- Psalm 70 expresses a urgent plea for God's help. Have you ever experienced a time when you felt a similar urgency in your prayers? Share your experience.

- The hymn "I Need Thee Every Hour" gained deeper meaning for its author after her husband's death. How have difficult experiences in your life deepened your faith or understanding of God's presence?

- The sermon states, "I honestly don't know how people who have no faith make it through life." How does your faith help you navigate life's challenges? Can you share a specific example?

Practical Applications:

- Daily Dependence: This week, consciously acknowledge your need for God in various aspects of your day. Keep a journal of moments when you felt God's presence or guidance.

- Social Media Fast: Consider taking a break from social media for a few days. Use that time to reflect on your blessings and connect with God through prayer or Bible reading.

- Encouragement Ministry: Reach out to someone who might be struggling with the challenges of "adulting." Offer encouragement, prayer, or practical help.

- Memorize Scripture: Choose a verse from Psalm 70 or Romans 8 to memorize this week. Reflect on how it applies to your current life situation.

- Gratitude Practice: Each day, write down three things you're grateful for, focusing on the often overlooked "mundane" aspects of life.

Closing Prayer:
Close the session by praying together, asking God to help each member recognize their need for Him every hour and to provide strength and guidance in their daily lives.

Here's a small group guide based on the sermon about Jacob's encounter with God in Genesis 28:10-22:

Small Group Guide: Nearer My God to Thee

Opening Prayer: Begin with a short prayer, asking God to open our hearts and minds to His message and presence.

Key Takeaways:
- God's faithfulness remains with Jacob despite his flaws and mistakes.

- God draws near to Jacob in an intimate moment, standing beside him.

- God extends grace and mercy to Jacob instead of punishment.

- Recognizing God's presence in our lives can be both awe-inspiring and humbling.

Discussion Questions:

- Jacob is described as a flawed character who often relies on his own cleverness. How does this resonate with your own experiences or struggles?

- The sermon mentions Jacob's dysfunctional family. How can favoritism or other family issues impact our spiritual journey?

- God appears to Jacob when he's alone and vulnerable. Share a time when you felt God's presence during a difficult or lonely period in your life.

- The pastor says, "My guess is that if you and I knew exactly how close God was to us that we might be just as shocked as Jacob was." How might this awareness change our daily lives?

- Discuss the concept of "Beth-el" (House of God). What are some "Beth-el" moments you've experienced in your life?

- The sermon emphasizes God's mercy over His wrath. How does this view of God impact your relationship with Him?

Practical Applications:

- This week, try to identify moments when God feels especially close. Journal about these "Beth-el" experiences.

- Reflect on past mistakes or struggles where you now see God's grace at work. Consider sharing one of these stories with a trusted friend or family member.

-  Choose a verse from the hymn "Nearer, My God, to Thee" to meditate on throughout the week.

- Practice being more aware of God's presence in your daily life. Set reminders to pause and acknowledge God's nearness throughout your day.

Closing Prayer: End the session by thanking God for His constant presence and asking for help to recognize and draw nearer to Him in the coming week.

Here's a small group guide based on the sermon transcription:

Small Group Guide: Abiding in Christ - John 15:1-11

Opening Prayer: Begin with a prayer asking for God's guidance and wisdom as you discuss the sermon and Scripture.

Key Takeaways:
- Jesus uses the imagery of a grapevine to illustrate our relationship with Him and the Father.

- God the Father is the vinedresser, Jesus is the vine, and we are the branches.

- Abiding in Christ involves both receiving His love and bearing fruit by loving others.

- True discipleship requires a balance between our vertical relationship with Christ and our horizontal relationships with others.

Discussion Questions:
- What stood out to you most from the sermon? Why?

- The sermon explains how grapevines function. How does this biological understanding enhance your comprehension of Jesus' metaphor?

- Jesus says, "Abide in me as I abide in you." What do you think it means to "abide" in Christ? How can we practically do this in our daily lives?

- The sermon mentions that branches don't actively pull nutrients from the vine, but the vine pushes nutrients into the branches. How does this change your perspective on your relationship with Christ?

- How does the idea of God as the vinedresser who prunes branches make you feel? Have you experienced "pruning" in your own life?

- The sermon states, "Disciples can only abide in Christ's love by loving as Christ loves." What are some ways we can love others as Christ loves us?

- Reflect on the quote: "Christian love is not like a heat-seeking missile that directs itself to something inherently attractive in the object of love." How does this challenge your understanding of love?

- The sermon mentions that love shouldn't come with conditions like "I will love only if..." or "I will love only when..." Can you think of times when you've placed conditions on your love? How can we work to remove these conditions?

Practical Applications:
- This week, intentionally practice "abiding" in Christ through daily prayer, Scripture reading, and reflection.

- Identify one person in your life who may be difficult to love. Make a conscious effort to show them Christ-like love without conditions.

- Keep a journal this week, noting times when you feel God "pruning" you or pushing you to grow. Reflect on how this process, though sometimes uncomfortable, is helping you bear more fruit.

- As a group, brainstorm and plan a service project that allows you to practically demonstrate Christ's love to others in your community.

Closing Prayer: End the session by praying for each other, asking God to help you abide more deeply in Christ and bear fruit through loving others.

Small Group Guide: Kyrie Eleison - Lord, Have Mercy

Opening Prayer:
Begin your session with a prayer, asking God to guide your discussion and open your hearts to His message.

Key Takeaways:
- "Kyrie Eleison" is an ancient Greek phrase meaning "Lord, have mercy."

- This cry for mercy appears throughout the Old and New Testaments.

- Jesus responded with compassion to those who cried out for mercy.

- We often cry "Kyrie Eleison" when we're at our wit's end and have nowhere else to turn.

- The crowd's reaction to the blind men shows how people can sometimes lack mercy.

Discussion Questions:

- What stood out to you most from the sermon? Why?

- The sermon mentions several instances in the Bible where people cry out for mercy. Can you think of a time in your life when you've cried out to God for mercy? What was that experience like?

- How do you think the blind men felt when the crowd tried to silence them? Have you ever felt silenced or dismissed when seeking help?

- The pastor says, "Sometimes life doesn't just give us lemons…life chunks them at us." What are some "lemons" that life has thrown at you recently? How have you responded?

- Discuss the contrast between the crowd's lack of mercy and Jesus' compassion. What can we learn from this?

- Why do you think it's significant that the Greek phrase "Kyrie Eleison" was retained in Latin liturgy?

- The sermon mentions several situations where we might cry "Kyrie Eleison" (diagnosis, financial struggles, relationship issues, death of a loved one). Which of these resonates most with you right now?

Practical Applications:

- Practice Compassion: This week, try to be more aware of people around you who might be crying out for help or mercy. How can you respond with compassion like Jesus did?

- Pray "Kyrie Eleison": Incorporate this ancient prayer into your daily life. When you face challenges or see others struggling, simply pray "Lord, have mercy."

- Reflect on God's Mercy: Take some time to journal about instances in your life where you've experienced God's mercy. How has this shaped your faith?

- Support Each Other: As a group, discuss ways you can better support one another during difficult times. Consider setting up a prayer chain or check-in system.

- Learn More: If you're interested, research more about early Christian worship practices or the history of liturgy. Share what you learn with the group next time.

Closing Prayer:
End your session by praying together, "Kyrie Eleison, Christe Eleison, Kyrie Eleison" (Lord have mercy, Christ have mercy, Lord have mercy). Invite group members to add their own prayers for mercy if they feel comfortable.

Small Group Guide: Going Up To Go Down

Opening Prayer: Begin your session with a prayer, asking for God's guidance and wisdom as you discuss the sermon.

Key Takeaways:

- Mountains play a significant role in biblical history as places where God intersects with humanity.

- The Transfiguration of Jesus reveals His divine nature and connects His mission to the broader narrative of God's salvation plan.

- Jesus' "exodus" in Jerusalem offers liberation from various forms of evil and oppression.

- Temptation and evil are still real challenges for 21st-century Christians.

- The season of Lent provides an opportunity for spiritual growth and alignment with God's will.

Discussion Questions:

- What struck you most about the historical significance of mountains in the Bible? How does this context enhance your understanding of the Transfiguration?

- The sermon mentions that the disciples didn't fully understand Jesus' prediction of His death and resurrection. How might we sometimes struggle to comprehend God's plan in our own lives?

- How does the appearance of Moses and Elijah at the Transfiguration connect Jesus' mission to the broader story of God's redemptive work?

- The sermon draws a parallel between the Exodus from Egypt and Jesus' "exodus" in Jerusalem. How do you see Jesus offering liberation in your own life or in the world today?

- What are some common temptations or struggles that you or people you know face in today's world? How can we apply the truth of 1 Corinthians 10:13 to these situations?

- The pastor emphasizes the importance of Lent and fasting. What has been your experience with Lenten practices? How might they help in aligning our will with God's?

Practical Applications:

- Mountaintop Reflection: Take time this week to find a quiet, elevated place (even if it's just a hill or tall building) to pray and reflect on God's presence in your life.

- Lenten Commitment: Prayerfully consider what you might fast from during Lent. Share your commitment with the group for accountability.

- Temptation Awareness: Keep a journal this week noting moments of temptation. Reflect on how you can apply 1 Corinthians 10:13 in those situations.

- Scripture Study: Read the Transfiguration account in Luke 9:28-36 along with Exodus 34:29-35. Compare and contrast these "mountaintop experiences" and their significance.

- Community Support: Reach out to someone in the group or church community who might be struggling with temptation or spiritual challenges. Offer prayer and encouragement.

Closing Prayer: End your session by praying for each other, especially regarding the Lenten commitments and any struggles shared during the discussion.

Small Group Guide: "Equal Sacrifice, Not Equal Share"

Opening Prayer:
Begin with a prayer asking God to guide your discussion and help apply the sermon's message to your lives.

Key Takeaways:
1. Sacrificial giving is about offering our best to God, not just what's convenient.
2. Our financial offerings represent a sacrifice of our time, energy, and work.
3. The church's primary purpose is to connect people to God and help those in need.
4. Jesus was likely upset, not praising, the widow's offering because the religious system was exploiting her.
5. Aldersgate is viewed as family by its members, and family supports one another.

Discussion Questions:
1. What does sacrificial giving mean to you? How is it different from casual giving?

2. The sermon mentions Old Testament sacrifices of "firstborn without blemish." How can we apply this concept of giving our best to God in our modern context?

3. How does the idea of money representing our time and energy change your perspective on giving?

4. Discuss your reaction to the interpretation of Jesus' response to the widow's offering. How does this view impact your understanding of giving and the church's role?

5. The pastor says, "I don't want anyone here to give out of their poverty." How do we balance sacrificial giving with responsible financial stewardship?

6. In what ways has Aldersgate been like family to you? How does this influence your desire to support the church?

7. What are some practical ways we can sacrifice to support our church's ministries without compromising our basic needs?

Practical Applications:
1. This week, prayerfully consider your current giving. Is it sacrificial or convenient?

2. Evaluate your budget. Identify one area where you could potentially sacrifice to increase your giving to the church.

3. If you're struggling financially, reach out to the pastor or a trusted church member for support.

4. Think of one way you can contribute to the church's ministries beyond financial giving (e.g., time, skills, resources).

5. Write a short reflection on how Aldersgate has impacted your life and share it with the group next week.

Closing Prayer:
Close the session by praying for wisdom in stewardship, gratitude for God's provisions, and guidance in how to best support the church family and its ministries.

Small Group Guide: Stewardship Lived in Faith

Opening Prayer: Begin with a prayer asking God to open your hearts and minds to discuss and apply the lessons from the sermon.

Key Takeaways:

- Stewardship is grounded in gratitude and revealed in prayer.

- Ministry's primary function is to connect people to God.

- Stewardship is lived in faith, with generosity at its core.

- Zacchaeus was already living out his faith through generosity before meeting Jesus.

- True faith is often misunderstood by others but recognized by God.

Discussion Questions:

- How does the story of Zacchaeus challenge our assumptions about wealth and faith?

- The sermon mentions that Zacchaeus was already generous before meeting Jesus. How does this change your perspective on the story?

- In what ways do you think our congregation resembles Zacchaeus? How can we continue to live out our faith through generosity?

- The sermon states, "Generosity is at the heart of who God is." How have you experienced God's generosity in your life?

- How can we ensure that our stewardship comes from a place of joy rather than obligation?

- The crowd misunderstood Zacchaeus, but Jesus saw his heart. Have you ever felt misunderstood in your faith journey? How did you handle it?

- What does it mean to you personally to be a "son or daughter of Abraham" in terms of faith and generosity?

Practical Applications:

- This week, reflect on your own giving habits. Are they driven by faith and joy? If not, what changes can you make?

- Identify one way you can be more generous this week - it doesn't have to be financial. Share with the group next time.

- Practice looking beyond outward appearances and assumptions about others, trying to see their hearts as Jesus did with Zacchaeus.

- Consider your response to the Capital Campaign. Pray about how God might be calling you to participate.

- Look for opportunities to connect someone to God through ministry this week.

Closing Prayer: Close by thanking God for His generosity and asking for guidance in living out faith through stewardship.

Small Group Guide: The Prodigal Son and Ministry

Opening Prayer: Begin with a prayer asking for God's guidance and wisdom as you discuss the sermon and its applications.

Key Takeaways:
- Ministry is about standing in solidarity with our Father as forgiven and restored children.

- The parable of the Prodigal Son is ultimately about the Father's great love and compassion.

- Both the younger and older son in the parable represent different ways we can be "lost."

- Our church's ministries aim to help people "come to themselves" and experience God's love.

Discussion Questions:

- The sermon mentions that asking for inheritance early was like telling the father "I wish you were dead." How does this cultural context change your understanding of the parable?

- In what ways can you relate to the younger son? The older son? The father?

- The pastor says, "Ministry is standing in solidarity with our Father as sons and daughters who have already been forgiven and restored to the family." What does this mean to you practically?

- How does the concept of honor and shame in Eastern cultures differ from our Western perspective? How might this impact our understanding of God's forgiveness?

- The sermon suggests that the older son is "truly the lost one." Do you agree? Why or why not?

- How can we cultivate a attitude of celebration when others "return" to God, rather than resentment like the older son?

- What ministries in our church help people "come to themselves" and experience God's love? How can we support or get involved in these ministries?

Practical Applications:

- Reflect on your own journey: Have you had a "coming to yourself" moment? Share with the group if you're comfortable.

- This week, look for opportunities to extend compassion to someone who might feel "lost" or separated from God or community.

- Identify one ministry in the church that resonates with you and find out how you can contribute or participate.

- Practice gratitude daily this week, focusing on God's forgiveness and restoration in your life.

- If you struggle with resentment towards others receiving God's grace, spend time in prayer asking God to soften your heart.

Closing Prayer: Close the session by thanking God for His unfailing love and asking for His help in living out the lessons learned from the parable of the Prodigal Son in your daily lives and ministries.

Small Group Guide: The Power of Prayer

Opening Prayer: Begin your session with a prayer, asking God to guide your discussion and help you apply the lessons from the sermon.

Key Takeaways:

- Prayer is more than just asking for needs; it's a comprehensive way of communicating with God.

- Jesus set an example of consistent prayer throughout his life and ministry.

- Prayer involves both words and actions, demonstrating submission to God's will.

- The goal of prayer is to unite our will with God's will, not just to get what we want.

Discussion Questions:

- How has your understanding of prayer changed after hearing this sermon?

- The sermon mentions that Jesus had a "custom" of going to the Mount of Olives to pray. Do you have a regular time and place for prayer? How might establishing such a habit impact your spiritual life?

- Discuss the significance of Jesus' posture (kneeling) during his prayer in Gethsemane. How does our physical posture affect our attitude in prayer?

- The sermon emphasizes Jesus' words, "not my will, but yours be done." How challenging do you find it to pray this way? Share experiences where you've had to submit your will to God's.

- How can we move from a "give me" prayer life to one that seeks unity with God's will?

- Reflect on the question, "Lord, what do you want to do through me?" How might regularly asking this question change your approach to life and ministry?

Practical Applications:

- This week, try incorporating different prayer postures (kneeling, standing with arms outstretched, etc.) into your personal prayer time. Reflect on how it impacts your prayer experience.

- Set aside time each day to pray specifically for God's will to be done in your life, rather than presenting a list of requests.

- Start each morning with the question, "Lord, what do you want to do through me today?" Keep a journal of how this impacts your daily decisions and interactions.

- As a group, commit to praying for each other throughout the week, focusing on aligning with God's will rather than just specific needs.

Closing Prayer: End your session by praying together, using the Lord's Prayer as a guide, emphasizing the line "Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven."

Scripture for Further Study:

• Matthew 6:9-13 (The Lord's Prayer)
• Romans 12:2
• James 4:13-15

Encourage group members to continue reflecting on the sermon's message throughout the week and to share any insights or experiences at the next meeting.

Small Group Guide: Gratitude and Faith

Opening Prayer:
Begin with a prayer, asking God to open our hearts and minds to understand His message and grow in faith and gratitude.

Key Takeaways:

- Generosity is fundamentally grounded in gratitude.

- God's grace flows throughout our lives, often acting before we even have faith.

- Gratitude is a powerful expression of faith and a measure of one's character and spiritual condition.

- Recognizing and responding to God's grace with thankfulness is crucial in our spiritual journey.

Discussion Questions:

- The sermon mentions that the capital campaign is "not really about the money at all." What do you think it means to grow in faith together through such a campaign?

- Reflect on the story of the ten lepers. Why do you think only one returned to thank Jesus? Have you ever been in a situation where you forgot to express gratitude?

- The sermon states, "Gratitude just may be the purest measure of a person's character and spiritual condition." Do you agree or disagree? Why?

- How does the concept of receiving, appreciating, and returning gifts apply to our relationship with God?

- The sermon asks, "Are we really self-made individuals who are beholden to no one? Or, are we blessed daily in ways that we seldom perceive, can never repay, and for which we often fail to be grateful?" How would you answer this question?

- In what ways can gratitude be an expression of faith in your daily life?

Practical Applications:

- Gratitude Journal: Start a daily gratitude journal, writing down three things you're thankful for each day.

- Thank You Notes: Write a heartfelt thank you note to someone who has positively impacted your life recently.

- Gratitude Prayer: Incorporate specific expressions of gratitude in your daily prayers.

- Acts of Kindness: Perform a random act of kindness this week as a way of "paying forward" the blessings you've received.

- Gratitude Walk: Take a walk and consciously notice things around you that you're grateful for, thanking God for each one.

Closing Reflection:
Spend a few minutes in silent reflection, considering how you can cultivate a more grateful heart and express your faith through thanksgiving.

Closing Prayer:
End the session with a prayer of gratitude, thanking God for His grace and asking for help in living a life of thankfulness and faith.

Small Group Guide: The Son of the Mother - John 2:1-12

Opening Prayer: Begin with a prayer asking for God's guidance and wisdom as you discuss the sermon and Scripture passage.

Key Takeaways:

- The story of Jesus turning water into wine is more than just a miracle; it's a sign revealing Jesus' glory and the fullness of grace and truth.

- Jesus' actions demonstrate overwhelming generosity and abundance, far beyond what was necessary or expected.

- The miracle wasn't about getting credit or recognition, but about revealing God's character through Jesus.

- Grace and truth came through Jesus Christ in a way that surpasses our human understanding and expectations.

Discussion Questions:

- What stood out to you most from this sermon? Why?

- The pastor mentioned that this story is often well-known but not well-understood. Before this sermon, how did you interpret this passage? Has your understanding changed?

- Discuss the interaction between Jesus and his mother. How does this exchange reveal aspects of their relationship and Jesus' mission?

- The miracle produced an abundance of high-quality wine (120-180 gallons). What does this tell us about God's character and the nature of His grace?

- How does this story connect to John 1:14-18 about Jesus bringing "grace upon grace"?

- The miracle went largely unnoticed by the wedding guests. Why do you think Jesus chose to perform the miracle this way? What can we learn from this?

- Reflect on times in your life when you've experienced God's overwhelming generosity. How did it impact you?

Practical Applications:

- This week, try to notice instances of God's grace in your daily life, especially in unexpected or "ordinary" moments.

- Reflect on how you can extend grace and generosity to others, particularly to those you might consider undeserving.

- Consider ways you can serve others without seeking recognition, inspired by Jesus' example in this story.

- Spend time in prayer, thanking God for His abundant grace and asking for help to better understand and live out that grace.

Closing Prayer: Close the session by thanking God for His abundant grace and asking for His help to live out the lessons learned from this passage.

Small Group Guide: The Son of the Beloved

Opening Prayer: Begin with a prayer asking God to open hearts and minds to the message of the sermon and guide the group's discussion.

Key Takeaways:

- John the Baptist prepared people for the coming of the Messiah through a baptism of repentance.

- Jesus' baptism didn't meet people's expectations of a warrior Messiah.

- At Jesus' baptism, God affirmed Jesus' identity as His beloved Son.

- Jesus' security in His identity allowed Him to withstand pressure and disappointment from others.

- As baptized believers, we are also called to find our identity as God's beloved children.

Discussion Questions:

- What expectations do you think people had of the Messiah in Jesus' time? How did Jesus challenge those expectations?

- The sermon mentions three false identities we often struggle with: we are what we do, what we have, or what others think of us. Which of these do you find most challenging in your own life?

- How does understanding Jesus' identity as the Beloved Son of God impact your view of His ministry and mission?

- In what ways can our baptism and identity as God's beloved children influence our daily lives and decisions?

- The sermon suggests that living out our true identity in Christ may disappoint others. Can you share an experience where following God's will conflicted with others' expectations?

- How can we grow in security of our identity in Christ, especially when faced with pressure to conform to worldly standards?

Practical Applications:

- This week, spend time in prayer, focusing on your identity as God's beloved child. Write down any insights or emotions that arise.

- Identify one area in your life where you're trying to meet others' expectations rather than God's. Develop a plan to align this area more closely with your identity in Christ.

- Practice affirming other group members in their identity as God's beloved. Send encouraging messages or make a point to verbally affirm them during the week.

- Reflect on your own baptism or commitment to Christ. How can you renew that commitment in a practical way this week?

Closing Prayer: Thank God for the gift of Jesus and His example of living securely in His identity. Ask for help in embracing your own identity as God's beloved and living it out faithfully.